Really listening can soften defensiveness and lead to deeper connection

Listening and social engagement can soften someone who is being defensive or has PTSD. It is usually because they are engaged in ‘fight or flight’ and they can’t just turn it off by themselves. They need connection to another human who cares about them, who really listens to them, lets them know they are heard, validates what they are feeling and saying.

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How to Cope With The Big Feels of Right Now

How are we suppose to cope with all the feels and stress from the uncertainties and challenges that surround us everyday? Most people internally disconnect from intense feelings by denying them, distracting with eating, working, or binge-watching. Or others disconnect by numbing them with alcohol or other substances. Now is the best time to learn how to cope.

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Creamy (Dairy Free) Potato Salad

This delicious potato salad was the star of many 4th of July parties over the past twenty years. The recipe balances the vinegar with a small amount of coconut cream and the added celery and carrots add some crunch. And your microbiome will love the resistant starch and fiber.

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